tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20501378.post2972838010916521701..comments2023-10-16T18:21:54.437+03:00Comments on House of Leaves: Metrospazhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09296879338027971889noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20501378.post-6321330167761701282011-06-21T01:33:41.072+02:002011-06-21T01:33:41.072+02:00You have to do the opposite of your instincts. I&#...You have to do the opposite of your instincts. I've experimented with this very consciously. If you unashamedly take up space like men do, they get intimidated, and you will get less harassed. Its the same psychology of bullies among kids. Those who try to disappear get even more visible and even more bullied. You're only signaling that they won't meet any resistance from you. <br /><br />And the 7ad kalemik-tactic? Well, instead of addressing them you could just do the same. Start talking loudly about how two idiots are talking about you as if you're not there and how incredibly stupid they are. 7ad kalemak? :)Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13373504133683823045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20501378.post-59180245281292777482009-03-04T07:48:00.000+02:002009-03-04T07:48:00.000+02:00just curious??? why do you feel like you need to d...just curious??? why do you feel like you need to disappear? you are not a "Mistake" that needs to be hidden!!!<BR/><BR/>I hate how society makes women feel like they have to hide!! by hiding you are " letting the terrorists win" like George W bush used to say ;) seriously.... only excrement needs to be hidden away from people. women should not feel this way, otherwise things will only get worse! Stand up tall and be proud of yourself and who you are. Confidence scares the sleezeballs you mention. Timidness will make them feel like they have contrl over you, and you are more likeley to be harrassed!!!<BR/><BR/>Try my way and see if it works. MAybe even write a post about it, and let us know if you feel like there is any diffeence!Egyptian Feminist Chichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12927651472484414243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20501378.post-85583399963936302872009-02-27T12:57:00.000+02:002009-02-27T12:57:00.000+02:00i hate that talking about u stuff. i have tried te...i hate that talking about u stuff. i have tried telling them off for it and gotten that 7ad kalemik routine...but making a scene has worked more time than not. <BR/>sigh, though. i do so resent the way they can be comfortable in public while we try to disappear.Forsoothsayerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02765993032234113659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20501378.post-27590703626262724502009-02-20T12:24:00.000+02:002009-02-20T12:24:00.000+02:00great great great post.great great great post.Eurekahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08788738213867238993noreply@blogger.com